This season’s
90 day Fiance: the other way was refreshing in many ways. A lot of new, authentic couples were a welcome change after Happily Ever After? shenanigans.But we have also seen bitter fights between spouses and nasty insults from people who aren’t even engaged yet.
We are a majority of the way through Season 4.
After all of this, who is still together after this season — and after the many months that have passed since it filmed?
Daniele Gates and Yohan Geronimo were the one familiar couple to the franchise this season. The pair previously appeared on
Love in Paradise.These two married before
90 Day Fiance: The Other Way. They clearly love each other and have a lot of intense sexual chemistry.Unfortunately, their differences make them as distant from each other as their heights. And it’s taking a toll on their marriage.
Neither Daniele nor Yohan seem fully capable of respecting the other’s religious beliefs. And that is only the tip of the iceberg.
Daniele arrived in the Dominican Republic to announce that she had unilaterally decided that they would live there. They decided to live in the Dominican Republic, not the US as they originally planned. She didn’t even discuss it with her husband, she just made her decision.
That doesn’t mean that Yohan cannot match her bossy and disrespectful demeanor. His overt racism is unacceptable. And his insecurities over her desire to meet up with a visiting friend (because he’s an ex) left a sour taste in the mouths of many viewers.
Daniele and Yohan are
still together.Multiple social media posts have made it pretty clear that they remain married. Daniele has defended moving to the DR with a tone which made it clear that she had not filed for divorce or moved back to New York.
So, yeah, their marriage remains intact. Whether that’s best for either of them … well, that’s another matter.
Debbie Aguero and Oussama have a monumental 43-year age gap. And that is not all.
Their remarkably chaste romance has a foundation of shared interests: both love art and poetry.
24-year-old Oussama and 67-year-old Debbie are both clearly eccentric.
But …Fans have questioned whether their shared interest goes beyond Oussama’s eyebrow-raising poetry and the two painting side-by-side.
In addition to a lack of any conventional affection and their obvious age gap, there are some red flags.
Oussama initially lied to Debbie, waiting to tell her that he’s not ready to marry her. Later in the season he asked Debbie to take him to America, snapping and insulting her as she made plans. Yikes.
Debbie and Oussama
appear to still be together.There has been no confirmation in either direction. It’s most likely that Debbie and Oussama are still together but not married. And it’s
very likely that Debbie is dividing her time between Morocco and Georgia.Gabriel Paboga and Isabel Posada are this season’s breakout fan-favorite couple, and with ample good reason.
Isabel loves Gabe, her kids love Gabe, and so do fans. Isabel’s parents, despite a lot anxiety, are big Gabe fans. He is a lovable treasure and still enough of an impulsive goofball to be entertaining.
Gabe asking Isabel to marry him was a beautiful moment. She said yes.
But they still face some major obstacles in their marriage. It won’t be impossible, but it takes time. He had to return from Colombia and spend months fixing this, putting their lives on hold. So he had to return to Florida from Colombia to spend months fixing that, putting their life on hold.
Gabe and Isabel are almost certainly still together.
Their social media commentary during this season has not hidden their ongoing affection for each other whatsoever.
Gabe has shown up in Florida … but we already knew that he would have to continue dividing his time between Florida and Colombia. Honestly? We’d love to see this couple again.
Jen Boecher and Rishi Singh are one of the most discussed couples this season, despite being neither fan-favorites nor most-hated.
Perhaps we’re projecting a little, but Jen has this “favorite aunt energy” that’s compelling. Rishi is a hottie, but viewers doubt his sincerity even more than Jen does (though, in some cases, less than her friends and family).Somehow, they have managed to remain engaged for three years, even though those three years were almost entirely long-distance.But there are serious questions about Rishi’s honesty, and it’s not all about him falling for Jen’s friend’s catfishing expedition.
When exactly will he tell his family that Jen isn’t just a friend, but his fiancee of three years?
According to him (per his astrologer), there is a specific time and date that is most auspicious. But making Jen wait that long seems absurd … and has filled her mind with understandable doubts.
As it stands, it looks like Jen and Rishi are
probably still together
.
There is no formal smoking gun — like a wedding registry, or photos of one or both of them with someone new.
But the two have collaborated on posts promoting their on-screen relationship during this season. That doesn’t
feel
like ex-fiance behavior.Kris Foster and Jeymi Noguera are a somewhat polarizing couple, though it’s almost entirely because of editing. Almost
.
The two women have led very different lives. Kris comes from a small rural town in Alabama. Jeymi is more accustomed to city life in Colombia.Additionally, Kris has been married, twice. Both times with men. Both of her children are adults. The couple got engaged before they met. Kris proposed to Jeymi after she suffered a serious health scare. In Colombia, a short time after meeting in person, they married.Unfortunately, mutual affection and great sexual chemistry has not translated to automatic married bliss.
Jeymi is emotionally needy. Kris has a couple of health problems, numerous ties back home in Alabama, and is pragmatic in a way that Jeymi finds hurtful.Still, they love each other. Enough that Kris and Jeymi are still together
.
In what we hope was not a violation of any contractual agreements, Kris has let it slip multiple times that she continues to visit Colombia. She is yet another cast member who is dividing her time between two countries.
Honestly, we wish these two the very best. And, if they return, we would love to see them get a more balanced edit.
Ugh, we now have to talk about Nicole Sherbiny and Mahmoud Elsherbiny.
Some couples, you root for and wish that they could overcome their differences and other obstacles. Some couples this season have only a few hurdles and will make it.
This is not okay.Simply put, Nicole has at time suggested that she does not feel happy as a Muslim woman or as a woman in Egypt.
However, viewers have clearly seen that Nicole’s conflict is not with Islam or with Egypt. There are plenty of Egyptian Muslim women leading lives that would make Nicole very happy.
Instead, her conflict has been with her husband, Mahmoud. We’ve already talked a lot about Nicole and Mahmoud, and their toxic relationship. We must tell you the sad news that Mahmoud and Nicole are still together.
Awful
.
They have both made that very clear on social media. Mahmoud taunted critics about their marriage. Nicole has spoken in the present tense about where she and Mahmoud live.Obviously, reality TV personalities can fake whatever they like on social media. Any of these couples may have deceived the public. But … that is unlikely..
